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11 Reasons You Feel Stuck (And How To Set Yourself Free)

When you are feeling down, stuck or frustrated, usually one (or more) of the following is going on within you…

  1. You’re apologizing for yourself + where you are in your career.
  2. You’re needing some external condition to make you happy.
  3. You’re forgetting that saying thank you in advance is a powerful choice.
  4. You’re in your head, allowing worry + doubt to rule your day.
  5. You’re waiting for fear to subside, before you take action.
  6. You’re trying to do everything perfectly, which keeps you procrastinating.
  7. You’re beaten down by rejection + letting it define you.
  8. You’re unaware of your true self + your inner greatness.
  9. You’re focusing on why it might not be possible for you.
  10. You’re needing things to change to feel good.
  11. You’re allowing your current reality to dictate your mood.

Do you notice a trend here?

You’re apologizing, needing, forgetting, waiting, trying, beaten down and unaware.

The good news is that by simply becoming aware of what you’re doing + how it’s making you feel, you can reclaim your power + start feeling unstoppable.

I know that some days are harder than others to get unstuck, so I here are 11 declarations to help you.

This is my “Credo For Feeling Unstoppable.”

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How To Start Feeling Unstoppable

We all know the feeling of being unstoppable? Those days when you get out of bed before your alarm rings, finish an intense workout, have some stranger smile at you in the grocery store and get a call saying you booked the job. Yeah, those are really good kinds of days, right?

But how do you feel unstoppable when you don’t book the job, no one looks your way + you want to pull the covers over and sleep in?

Well, some days, sleeping in might be just the thing you need.

But if, on most days, you’re waiting to book a job to start feeling unstoppable, you’re going to have a lot of not-so-great days.

Here’s my advice:

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The 2 Biggest Factors That Keep You From Your Dreams

The two biggest factors that keep you from your dreams might actually surprise you.

They are…needing + wanting.

The definitions of want + need actually imply a lack of something deemed necessary, and are at the opposite energetic spectrum of feeling fulfilled + satisfied.

So, it might be time to take a closer look at what you are “needing + wanting” and ask yourself “Why does this matter so much to me?”

If you want to get somewhere in your career because you need it to define:

  • your value
  • your worth
  • your importance
  • or that you “really matter…”

Then what you want will continue to elude you.  Why?

This kind of thinking actually puts you in a state of lack – needing some outer circumstance to give you the abundance you seek.

The reality is that it actually works the other way around.

Best selling author Abraham-Hicks states it so simply + yet profoundly with these seven words…..

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Did you really get that? Until it doesn’t matter, it can’t be.

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What To Do If You Have The Post-Oscar Blues

If you watched the Oscars last night, and it left you feeling inspired + hopeful for the possibilities ahead for you – awesome.

But if you turned off the TV + went to bed wondering…

  • Will it ever happen for me?
  • What do I do to get to where I want to go?
  • How will I ever achieve my biggest dreams?

Here’s what you need to know…

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Yep, the only way to get to where you want to go (no matter where that is) is to first make peace with where you are.

So, if you woke up today feeling blue about your career, guess what? (more…)

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The Real Cause of Your Frustration (And How to Find Relief)

We all do it.

When we are frustrated with our acting careers, we want find someone or something to blame.

So, you tend to blame…

  • Your representation
  • Your lack of auditions
  • Your lack of callbacks
  • Your age
  • Your credits
  • Your ethnicity
  • Your weight/looks
  • Your connections
  • Your mate/spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend
  • The casting director who didn’t smile when she/he called your name
  • The execs who didn’t look up when you walked into the room
  • The girl/guy who went in before you that books everything
  • The reader
  • The traffic
  • The weather

But what if whatever you are blaming on this list for your frustration, wasn’t the cause of it at all?

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Isn’t that interesting to realize? “While we think that our circumstances are the cause of our frustration, the real source lies in our being unaware of our higher self. ” – Pir Vilayat

So maybe now the question becomes, what exactly is my higher self, and how the heck do I become aware of this…self?

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How To Be More Productive, Creative + Stress Free

I used to think I didn’t have time for slowing down.  As an ambitious, type-A doer, deep breathing always sounded like something you do on a weekend yoga retreat in the woods.

I had places to be, things to do and dreams to create.  And apparently, I needed to hurry to get there.

Sound familiar?

If you feel that slowing down to take a few deep breaths is going to “slow down your progress,” you’re mistaken.

Calming your mind, body and soul through breathing deeply will actually help make you more productive, creative and stress free.

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It’s been proven that short periods of meditation, using breathing as a focus, can alter the body’s stress response.

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How To Turn Worry + Fear Into A State Of Calm

Whether you are feeling frustrated with your acting career, or the current political climate (or both), keep in mind, that often, the deepest upsets + challenges arrive just before a HUGE transformation.

One of the most helpful ways to move through all the uncertainty, is by realigning with love.

And the most simple + practical, yet highly underused method to reconnect, is right within your own body…the breath.

We often run through life unaware of the capacity that breathing deeply has to alter our state of mind, our health + our joy-factor.

In under 5 minutes, it can turn your awareness from worry, doubt and anxiety to a state of love, surrender + trust.

And guess what?  In doing so, you will be contributing to peace in the world.

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How To Go From Where You Are Right Now To Where You Want To Be….Fast

As January comes to a close, I want to remind you of two things:

1) You are worthy of your dreams.  Your biggest dreams.
2) Early Bird Enrollment for The Success Breakthrough Workshop ends tomorrow.
Find out more about the course students are calling “Powerful. Priceless. Vital to the actor’s soul.”

I know you have big dreams and a big heart, otherwise you would not have found your way to me.  I also know that sometimes big dreams can feel intimidating or even scary.

But I don’t want you to allow fear to stop you this year.

So in today’s video, I share with you “How to get from where you are right now to where you want to be….fast.”

I got a little choked up making this video for you today. But, this year I’m focusing on taking bold actions (even when they scare me) and allowing my vulnerability to be a strength, not a weakness. 😉

And speaking of fear, here’s something you should know….

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How To Radically Transform Your Acting Career

I’m excited to reveal “How To Radically Transform Your Acting Career.”

But first 3 quick announcements, as the past 3 weeks have been mind-blowing to watch so many actors jump start their breakthrough year + shed all kinds of limitations inside my “Virtual Party” of free online trainings.  Amazing!

1) A big thank you to the hundreds of actors who watched my Free Video Series + experienced major shifts in under 30 minutes. It won’t be up for long, so access the Free Video Series here now.

2) And another big thank you to everyone who came to my Free Webinar + enjoyed learning the 5 steps to radically transform your acting career + your personal happiness. You can access the REPLAY here.

3) Enrollment is NOW OPEN for my Success Breakthrough Workshop online course for a limited time only. Click here for details + VIP Early-Bird Pricing.

I’m going to keep it simple today, as I’ve spent the last 3 weeks watching brave + committed actors dive inward + take an honest look at what’s been stopping them from creating more success + happiness in their acting careers + their personal lives.

Here’s what I know to be true: To radically transform your career, you must first radically transform your inner game.

Yes, it all begins, by looking within.

Why? Well, real transformation can’t happen without conscious awareness…

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Yes. When I acknowledge + accept, I can transform.

For most actors, it’s way easier to spend the day/month/year blaming their agents, weight, looks, age, lack of connections or number of auditions for their lack of results,

But what hundreds of actors uncovered in my Free Video Series, was that the actual act of blaming was the thing that was not only keeping them in victim mode, but was also the very thing that was keeping them stuck.

Once you realize that the #1 factor that determines your success, (more…)

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