The more I look back on the manifestations I’ve had in my life, whether it has been in my acting career, building relationships, creating abundance or even getting married and having a family, there has been a through line, a pattern, that has helped me over and over again.
That is one of ease, flow and letting go.
Whenever I tried to “white knuckle” the Universe into giving me what I wanted when I wanted it, I was not only acting from my ego, but ultimately creating more resistance on my own path. (This took me years to understand, so hopefully I’m giving you a shortcut here.)
I now know, I don’t have to do it all alone.
I am supported by something bigger than myself, and when I surrender to that power (whatever you wish to call it) I am always guided to a higher plane.
When I am carefree, and flexible with what is (or isn’t) showing up, I am signaling the Universe to co-create for my highest good.
The same is true for you.
Deepak Chopra explains that when you create ease + flow within, “you are then no longer bound by the ego’s insecurities + cravings.” “The more detached you are from the results, the better the results.” – Deepak Chopra.
It’s not that we have to let go or lose sight of our desires or our intentions, but when we let go of our ego’s timelines (more…)
My husband snapped this photo after I had just come home from a film audition earlier this month.
I went in to read for one role, and before I was even finished with the last page of sides, the director asked me to read for another role…the lead.
The casting director handed me 15 new pages of material and told me to “take as much time as I needed.”
Their session was ending soon, so I really only had about 15 minutes.
There was no time to rehearse, overthink or debate, but just to go with my instincts, make strong choices, and have fun.
And that’s exactly what I did.
I came home feeling so good. I was simply enjoying the journey of being an actor, and the fun of getting to play in a room full of creative people.
The whole experience reminded me that enjoying the journey is the most important part of getting to where you want to go. Of course, I thought about the audition the next day. In fact, as I was doing laps in our pool, I reminded myself, “I don’t pick the jobs, the jobs pick me,” and just let it all go.
In that moment, I got back in alignment with feeling good, being present, and enjoying my time with my family.
I’ve been pausing more lately, without distraction from devices.
I’ve been listening to birds sing in my backyard, marveling at the freckles on my children’s faces and enjoying mindful moments where I deeply and sincerely appreciate my life.
And it seems the more I do this, the happier I become and the more unexpected wonderful surprises start to show up. (In the form of auditions, helpful people + exciting offers).
So, just for today, give yourself the gift of a mindful moment. How? Put the phone down. Go outside. Take in the scenery. Love yourself, right where you are. Just for today, let go of needing anything to be different.
Let go of striving and pushing to change where you are. (more…)
The thing that keeps you from what you want (is not your agent, the casting director, or other actors in the waiting room at your audition, etc.) but it is actually something that you can control: Your thoughts.
Sometimes we know that we should be talking to ourselves more lovingly, but we just can’t find the words.
Other times we’re so ingrained in old habits of negative self-talk, that we literally don’t know what self-compassion even sounds like or where to begin?
Today I’m offering up 9 mindful mantras for returning to love.
Adopt any (and all) that feel good to you this week as a way of practicing loving self-acceptance by choosing better thoughts.
You may just find that beginning here, with the thoughts you think and the things you tell yourself, make it easier to start seeing your life (and your career) through the lens of love.
Or as the late great Wayne Dyer stated, “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”
So become aware of what you say to yourself today, and in each present moment, practice returning to love.
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