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Why Wishing Things Were Different Works Against You

When you try to fix something, you fixate on it. You spend your time + energy focusing on the problem.

Albert Einstein once said, “We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.”

So whatever feels like a problem this week, what if you simply reframed your thinking?

Better yet, instead of wishing things were different, what if you didn’t even see them as problems, but rather as the perfect next steps along your path?

I had an epiphany this week, in the midst of watching the Hollywood Reporter Roundtable discussion of dramatic actresses, (where Oprah and Nicole Kidman talk about being nervous and being scared of making fools of themselves), and I realized that thinking you will feel differently when you get to somewhere other than where you are right now, is an illusion.

And I just started asking this question….
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What if everything was perfect exactly as it is right now? What if you didn’t need one thing to change for you to feel good?

What if the timing of all that is and isn’t happening for you was perfect? (more…)

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The Fastest Path To A Prosperous Life

Are you busy, working really hard, trying to create prosperity, success + fulfillment in your acting career + your life?  Do you feel a little worn out these days?

What if “doing more” was actually the very thing that was blocking your path to prosperity.

How? Because if you’re taking massive action from a place of lack, you’re actually working against yourself.

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If all your action isn’t leading you to where you want to go, it’s time to realign your mind.
Prosperity is an inside game.

Sure, scarcity can be a motivator to get you moving, but eventually you must (more…)

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How To Let Go Of Lack (25 Mantras For Prosperity)

Did you know there are 1440 minutes in every day?  How are you spending most of them?

Are you looking for what’s missing and commenting what isn’t working?

Are you looking for things to appreciate and talking about what is working?

If your thoughts and conversations all center around lack and scarcity, then you’ll have trouble aligning with prosperity.

So how do you let go of lack + tune into a more prosperous life?  It all begins with your focus.unnamed
As you look for signs of prosperity, you’ll begin to feel the energy of prosperity.

It may seem like “feeling” prosperous doesn’t matter if there’s not a ton of money in your bank account, but this where true prosperity begins. (more…)

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How To Invite In Unlimited Prosperity

Happy Spring!  I love this time of year.  I spent all day yesterday, in the garden planting succulents.

And I got to thinking about what makes a succulent life + how to enjoying real prosperity in all areas.

At the root (no “planting pun intended”) of inviting in unlimited prosperity in all areas of our lives, is giving ourselves permission to be prosperous.  We must feel that it’s not only okay to have wealth, success, fulfillment + joy, but that it’s our birthright, no matter what we were taught growing up.

We must understand at a deep level, that our desire for a prosperous life, won’t somehow take anything away from anyone else.

The key, though, is not waiting for prosperity to arrive at your doorstep, in order to feel prosperous.  When you find ways to feel prosperous now, without even needing to see evidence of it, you will shift your experience.  The more prosperous you can feel, the more expectant you become, and the more your experience begins to match it.

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Yes.  What we think, we create. What we feel, we attract. What we imagine, we become.

Scientific research reveals that the subconscious mind accepts  (more…)

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The Most Powerful Agent of Human Change

This quote stopped me in my tracks last week + I knew I had to share it with you.

Unexpected kindness is the MOST POWERFUL, LEAST COSTLY AND MOST UNDERRATED agent of human change.”

As we head into the holidays, what if each and everyone of us began practicing unexpected kindness everywhere we went?

In the check out line at the grocery store, at the post office, in traffic, with our children, our spouses, our mates, our families, our relatives (even the ones you’re not so fond of) and ourselves.

Why?  Because…

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In a consumer driven world that is constantly telling us we need to acquire more, bigger and better, what if we (more…)

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How To Get Out Of Your Own Way (And Into Receiving Mode)

Wanna know how you get in your own way and what’s really keeping you from what you want?

Believe it or not, it’s your own dissatisfaction that it’s not here yet.

Yep, your dissatisfaction, “in the meantime,” is your most common hindrance to getting closer to your goals.

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I almost got mad when I first read this, but then felt better knowing that it’s the simplest one to release.

Feeling like our dreams are somehow eluding us or are delayed can feel deeply frustrating.

But underneath all the dissatisfaction, is an opportunity to dig deeper, to redirect your focus and to release it all so you can (more…)

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The Real Secret To Booking More Work

Wanna know the real secret to booking more acting work?

After booking 3 jobs (2 with A-List comedy super-stars) in one day last month, I can tell you the real secret to booking more work…

Plan a vacation.  (Or any scheduled time off to just relax)

Let me explain why this works.

Years ago, I used to have a huge case of FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out).

I would never leave town and would barely plan a day trip to the beach, in case I had to be ready for a

…last-minute-same-day-audition-or-callback-or-any-other-kind-of-opportunity-that-might-propel-me-forward-in-my-career.

Sound familiar? Can’t you feel the sense of panic in that statement?  And planning trips in advance? That was out of the question.  My thought was always, “But what if I book a job?

Here’s what I now know to be very true…

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Believe me, 20 years actually goes by pretty darn fast!

Eventually I started taking this advice and would allow myself to (more…)

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3 Steps to Begin Manifesting Miracles

To begin manifesting miracles, we must re-connect with an energy greater than ourselves + unite with it, we must release our blocks, and practice TLC.

Not only is this “tender, loving care” of ourselves at a deep level, but I’ve redefined TLC to give you a quick three step guide to begin manifesting miracles.

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Here are all 3 steps to begin manifesting miracles… (more…)

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How To Stop Blocking Your Own Success

How do you stop blocking your own success?
First, you must become aware that you are the one doing it.

How do you know?

Most likely you are focusing our attentionthoughts, words, social media posts, conversations with friends + mental mindset on lack, on what isn’t working and on what you don’t want to experience.

Since like attracts like – whatever you give your attention to expands, creating more of it in your life.

So instead of focusing on what you don’t want, the key is to pivot your attention to what you DO want.

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This is not new age philosophy, it’s physics.  Everything is made up of energy.

And it happens whether you are aware of it or not.  Becoming aware of it can transform your life.

Here are 5 steps to stop blocking your own success. (more…)

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5 Ways To Invite In More Abundance

Ready to invite in more abundance this month?  Often, when wanting to acquire more abundance + prosperity, a sense of lack or need can arise.

The late, great Dr. Wayne Dyer stated…

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The key is to raise our abundance consciousness or awareness.  Since our inner world always creates our outer world, if we want to change our experience of abundance, we must change (more…)

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