The Two Ways To Approach Your Life + Career: Which will you choose?

How have you been feeling lately?  Have you been feeling inspired + motivated or lethargic + unproductive?  I know the last 12 months have been a roller-coaster ride.

As we begin the 3rd month of 2021, I hope you are making your mental health + self-care your #1 priority.  (And yes, it effects everything you do for your acting career).

How do you know if you have an effective daily well-being routine?  Here’s a great way to check in: 

Have you been allowing outer circumstances + events to dictate how you feel each day or have you been aligning your mind + getting out ahead of it all, as you begin your day?

To be on a creative path, is to be on a spiritual path.  The good news, is you have more creative control of your life than you might think, even when external circumstances seem limiting.

So often we think that life is just happening to us, and we forget that our energy and perspective plays a vital role in the unfolding of it all.

Best-selling author, Dr. Joe Dispenza says,

“When it comes down to it, there are 2 ways to approach our lives: either as the victims to our lives or the creators of our lives. To live as the victim is to live within the limited belief system that everything in our outer world is happening to us.

Simply put, when things are good, you feel good. When things are bad, you feel bad. That’s the polarized world of victim consciousness in a nutshell.

Creative consciousness, on the other hand, is the awareness that when you feel joy, love, or gratitude before your creation is made manifest—& you combine that energy of joy, love, or gratitude with the intent of new information—it is that elevated frequency that can carry that thought.”

Quotes like this always inspire me so much.

When you learn how to choose your thoughts + emotions (no matter what is going on in the outside world), you become a master of your life.

And what happens, is you begin to see yourself as infinite intelligence sees you.

In fact, here is what infinite intelligence would tell you today, my fellow creative warrior…

You matter.
You belong.
You are important.
You are powerful.
You are ready.
Your time is now.
You playing small does not serve the world.
There will never be another you.
You have many gifts to share.
You have many amazing experiences ahead.
You are worthy of all of life’s beautiful blessings.
You are ready to receive.

I hope this touches you today.

But keep in mind, that reading this once or twice, won’t cut it.

You have to own this knowing in your soul, embody it in your spirit + trust that you are divinely guided to create real change.

I know how hard this can be on those days where you’ve been doing great self-tapes + hear nothing, or maybe you reached out to a new agent and haven’t heard anything back yet.  Or, perhaps you feel stuck + don’t know what to do next.  I get it.

Here’s a powerful tool that will help. I created a brand new guided meditation + visualization that is designed to help you to trust in the future that you cannot see, and allow your mind to immerse yourself in an entirely new pool of thought, where love, worthiness + divine guidance lead the way.

It’s my gift to you (along with other monthly tools, support + coaching I provide to nourish the actor’s mind, body + soul) when you join me in The Spotlight Club + Community Membership

This month’s tools will help you to:

    • Let go of all judgment, worry, criticism, comparison, shame or other low-energy thinking.
    • Allow your mind to swim in the pool of self-compassion, self-acceptance, self-love, worthiness, overflowing abundance + guidance
    • Find mindful moments daily to immerse myself under the waterfall of feeling“I am love. I am worthy. I am guided.”

Come check out what actors are calling “The best self-care investment you’ll ever make”. Learn more here.

Leave a comment here on the blog + declare ‘I am worthy of it all’ so I know you are committing it to memory.

No matter how you get there, I’m wishing you a wonderful week ahead where you trust that you are divinely guided + own your power every single day.

Love + Gratitude,

– Wendy


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2 thoughts on “The Two Ways To Approach Your Life + Career: Which will you choose?”

  1. Hi Wendy
    I hope you are well. Thank you for the inspiration always just on the day’s I need it most I read your emails. I feel stuck at the moment financially I can’t afford to pursue my career but I won’t lose hope. I believe this hard time is making me stronger I will reach dreams no matter what is limiting me to move forward. I know what I am capable of and I won’t lose it I was born to be a actor even if I don’t have any support but that won’t break me. Thank you for believing in me you are such a light and inspiration. I am tired of struggling I just an opportunity. I am saying this to myself everyday I will become an actress I will have everything of my own and I won’t struggle forever.

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